Re: LUV OR ARRANGED MARRIAGE

by BQ Fatima Sun Jan 25, 2009 7:59 am

xactly and people would try harder in their marriage...i know marriage is hard...its not all roses but if onli both couple gave their everything these days... now i see one giving everything and the other doesnt care.... its hartbreakin wen its ur own family...

its best knowing the person before marrying them.... knowing if they have the capability to get married.... nowadays people have differ expectations.....

by Tassy Sun Jan 25, 2009 8:01 am

dts tru wt u sayiin ^^ ii agreee

by Baybeee_TiiTCH Sun Jan 25, 2009 8:09 am

***muni*** wrote:xactly and people would try harder in their marriage...i know marriage is hard...its not all roses but if onli both couple gave their everything these days... now i see one giving everything and the other doesnt care.... its hartbreakin wen its ur own family...

its best knowing the person before marrying them.... knowing if they have the capability to get married.... nowadays people have differ expectations.....

but then some do get to know each other, after they get married they tend to feel bored....ermmm isn't that why people cheat on each other? but i do understand you

by BQ Fatima Sun Jan 25, 2009 8:15 am

love...wen people r bored y do they instantly look elsewhr...thats wot i cant stand if ppl r bleedin bored why dnt they do things to entertain their marriage life??? i mean there's so many things u can do to spark up your married life...n they r simple fings...if they did that n worked on it ryt...y shud ppl look elsewhr... n ur ryt ppl do look elsewhr n i fink wtf...

if people have probs come to me i wantd to become a counsellor i will help you! lol! Razz

n getting to know a person just to know wat they're like...i dnt man for ages...but u can suss a person out wen u speak to them for a good couple of months.... n one thing u got to be careful of is people rush and fake who they r... seen it plenty of times until they get hitched tru colours come out....

by Baybeee_TiiTCH Sun Jan 25, 2009 8:20 am

definately tru!! and woman i don't have issues!!! joker! haha!!! why don't you become a counseller then!!??

by BQ Fatima Sun Jan 25, 2009 8:26 am

Baybeee_TiiTCH wrote:definately tru!! and woman i don't have issues!!! joker! haha!!! why don't you become a counseller then!!??

wen did i say u had issues...get married then i can say it lol Laughing

ima become a nurse n once im married n settled... then guna see if i can become one....i cnt now...parents have the mind to get me married... i dnt have enuff time to achieve it... plus i didnt wana do half of it then drop out... took the short way to become a nurse for now.....

by Baybeee_TiiTCH Sun Jan 25, 2009 8:30 am

your a nurse?? and btw you look gorgeoussss in your pik!!!

by BQ Fatima Sun Jan 25, 2009 8:32 am

student nurse atm... not qualified just yet... but im specialise for learning disability people only.... Very Happy

err.... i dnt fink so love....

by Baybeee_TiiTCH Sun Jan 25, 2009 8:40 am

love just admit you are!!!

what do old people say about marriage do you think?

by BQ Fatima Sun Jan 25, 2009 8:46 am

^^^what u mean by that?

by Baybeee_TiiTCH Sun Jan 25, 2009 9:02 am

that your gawjuzz !!

and what do old people say about marriage, are all of them still traditional or some become modernised as to how they believe we should approach marriage

by BQ Fatima Sun Jan 25, 2009 9:06 am

no i dint mean bout meee silly lol!

i dunno.. sum of our elders are leaned back n follow wats happening now... u know kids finding their own brides/groom-not too sure about groom lol! but yh...

some of our other elders still fink traditionally-expecting their child to go with arrange... buh not too sure...

by Baybeee_TiiTCH Sun Jan 25, 2009 9:07 am

aaahhhh skane so arranged will always exist...think that's a good idea but forced arranged is badd!! what you think?

by BQ Fatima Sun Jan 25, 2009 9:12 am

Baybeee_TiiTCH wrote:aaahhhh skane so arranged will always exist...think that's a good idea but forced arranged is badd!! what you think?

wot does that mean in bold???

yh forced marriage i h8! its out the question... i find that sooo rong!

by Baybeee_TiiTCH Sun Jan 25, 2009 9:14 am

skeen seen....ok..... and yuuupp its definately wrong!

by x..[Luv]-[PwiNCesS]..x Mon Jan 26, 2009 9:24 pm

i prefer love .... i mean i dunow ......itz too complicated
its all bout trust and if da person iz ryt 4 you or not :S ....

by Baybeee_TiiTCH Sat Feb 07, 2009 4:39 am

exactly so rather than the complications try an make it easier, easier route = arranged! brokentooth

by Babyy_Moyna <B Sat Feb 07, 2009 8:36 am

ii dnt myn arranged or love... bigsmile

depend iif ii dnt hv a lover....&& as lng as my family iiz happy wiiv hu eva dey fiink iiz bst 4me iim happy...
buh ii dnt lyk ppl hu force ppl tuu get marriied Evil or Very Mad

by x..[Luv]-[PwiNCesS]..x Sat Feb 07, 2009 8:49 am

^^ omdaiz noo wayyy ...ish yuuh alwell dat has 2 be happy ...

by Babyy_Moyna <B Sat Feb 07, 2009 8:52 am

fnkoo sweetiie... ii aiint fussed az lng as ii get da ryt decent family type guy....&& My family knowz wat type ov guy ii wud want...ii got my bruvaz && siisterz tuu luk for my mr ryt... Angel

insha'allah munii && my 3rd bruva get married soon... Very Happy

by x..[Luv]-[PwiNCesS]..x Sat Feb 07, 2009 8:58 am

aaawwwwww dahz sooooo cuteeee ........ Angel

....... buh yuuh will be happy doe ... ryt ..... Surprised

by Babyy_Moyna <B Sat Feb 07, 2009 9:01 am

yeep hunii... ii guess we all cn pray dat we get da ryt husband dat we all want for our furture...insha'allah x Angel

by x..[Luv]-[PwiNCesS]..x Sat Feb 07, 2009 9:02 am

insha'allah ..... awww dun worii i`ll pray 4 yuuh , when da tym cumz , lemme know yea ..xx

by Babyy_Moyna <B Sat Feb 07, 2009 9:07 am

dnt wry hunii...iif yew dnt mynd me askiin...hw old r yew...dnt need tuu saii iif yew dnt wanu.. Smile

by x..[Luv]-[PwiNCesS]..x Sat Feb 07, 2009 9:12 am

16 .... gona be 17 in lyk 3 months ....cant w8 bigsmile

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